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What is
“HORSE SENSE”? We could debate this question for years. When I
try to think of answers to this question, it causes me to ask
more questions. Such as, “Do horses have it? Are there any
people who have it? Will “HORSE SENSE” forever elude us? Will
some of us come to understand it in a way that helps us be
safer, improve our performance, and have even more fun with our
horses?”
Some would
call “HORSE SENSE” a “knack,” while others would say it’s a
“skill,” but for me it is trying to figure out what makes horses
and people tick. It has become my life’s passion to discover
and share ways that people can find a common sense approach to
horsemanship where ordinary people can get extra-ordinary
results with their horses.
My
horsemanship journey began at the tender age of two when my Dad
gave me my first pony named “Ginger.” We grew up together and
she lived to be over 30 years old. These early attempts at
finding “HORSE SENSE” were without sophistication or any special
knowledge. However, what I did have going for me was an
unconscious awareness of how to be natural with horses and a
sensitivity to what was right and wrong imparted to me by my
parents. Ginger and I were partners in every way even though we
lacked experience, training, and maturity, three of the basic
ingredients which may be vital to “HORSE SENSE.”
When I was
old enough to compete in 4-H, rodeos, horse shows, and
gymkhanas, the partnership I had with horses seemed to change
along with my ideas about “HORSE SENSE”. The pressure to win
was both a good and bad influence on me. My judgment was
sometimes clouded by my ultra ego to look and be the best.
Therefore, I often found myself doing things that were unfair
and even unkind to my horse. I now call it a lack of “HORSE
SENSE” to blame my horse for a poor performance resulting in a
loss, and then take all the credit when I won.
As I reflect
on this time, I realize temperance and refinement were two other
qualities I needed to develop in order to regain the partnership
that I had experienced with Ginger as a very young girl. On
days when I would forget about my rigorous practice routine and
I could just hang out with my horse by grooming, a free gallop
in the pasture, or a swim in the river with my horse, I
discovered a sense of balance which kept me on the path toward
finding true “HORSE SENSE.”
The next leg
of my journey for getting a taste of “HORSE SENSE” took me to
the Howard Pitzer Ranch near Ericson, Nebraska. As I rode the
colts assigned to me in the round pen, I kept my eyes glued on
the other end of the arena where Gary Putman, Howard’s trainer
at the time, showed me a reliable savvy horseman with feel,
timing and balance. His ability to decide with soundness what
each horse needed was part of the refinement of “HORSE SENSE” I
was still missing. I had a new conscious awareness that I had
some “raw talent,” but I was a long way from being an artisan of
horsemanship, like I had dreamed.
While working
for a reining trainer in Montana for a very short while, I met
the first horse who scared me into paralyzing fear. I knew
right away that I didn’t have the savvy to handle this
situation. At least I was rational enough to get out of a very
dangerous situation due to my inexperience before I got hurt. I
think this decision could be considered “HORSE SENSE.”
Later,
another horse came into my life that left me puzzled, and
frustrated. I found myself learning to put up with a lot of
undesirable behavior as normal. In reality, the horse was
training me about what not to do when around him. It was the
first horse I couldn’t load in a trailer, put a bridle on over
his ears, worm him, or give him shots. He was difficult to
catch, trim his feet, he spooked a lot and oh, did I mention he
pulled back when tied. Other than that, he was the perfect
horse. Of course, I loved him and so I learned to live with all
of these problems. I only tried to solve a couple of these
problems. I finally begged a local “horse whisperer” nick-named
Pistol Pete to show me how to put the bridle on over his
sensitive ears and load him in the trailer. Pistol Pete
accomplished the tasks with ease, but after he left I still
couldn’t do them.
After many
years of success, a suit case full of buckles and ribbons, plus
a wall full of trophies I became very conscious that I now had
quite a bit of experience with horses, but no formal training,
and I wasn’t as smart as I had thought. I admitted that what I
understood about horses, why they do what they do and how to
handle each situation in a positive progressive and natural
manner was minimal at best.
Once I opened
my mind to the fact that I needed help if I was going to be one
of those people with “HORSE SENSE,” a whole new horse world
appeared to me that I never realized existed. I became a learn-aholic,
reading everything I could get my hands on. I went to many
clinics, camps, and lessons. I watched videos over and over. I
took notes on everything, and kept diaries of my progress.
I spent hours
and hours learning from horses. This was something new for me,
because in the past my attitude and motivation was much
different. I used to do things “to horses” or just “saddle them
up and ride.” Now, my intention is to do things “with horses.”
I’m sure I
don’t have perfect “HORSE SENSE” yet. But I do know experience,
training, and maturity have taught me the pieces of the puzzle I
do have and those I’m still missing. Only as I improve my
understanding of what makes horses and people tick will I become
the kind of horsewoman my horses need me to be in order to get
extraordinary results with them.
As you travel
the road toward “HORSE SENSE,” may you have more fun than you
ever dreamed possible, ride safer and give your horse the best
gift ever, a savvy partner with some “HORSE SENSE.” I believe
your horse already has all the “HORSE SENSE” he needs, he’s just
waiting for you to catch up with him.
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